We spend so much of our lives on autopilot, days slipping past, opportunities for passion and aliveness dissolving before we even notice they were there.
We know the voices. The ones that whisper we’re not good enough, not smart enough, that we don’t have what it takes to reach for what we truly envision. So we wake up to another day that feels heavy, one that’s far removed from what our hearts actually want.
But here’s the truth: the days we wake up to are too precious.
The world, and all its wonder, is too vast and fleeting to spend living from a script that was never ours to begin with.
We get to decide. Our story doesn’t have to be written by default. We can take back the pen and begin again.
Move toward what’s in your heart. Not perfectly. Not all at once. But intentionally one choice, one aligned moment at a time.
This life?
It can be rewritten.
And it can be a thing of beauty.
Our Manifesto
We're Ev and Pat, and for a long time, we were just going through the motions.
You know that feeling when the days blur together? When you're doing everything you're supposed to do, but something still feels... off?
Yeah. We lived there for years.
That quiet discomfort became our turning point. It pushed us to stop, listen, and figure out what our hearts were actually asking for.
Now we're here, sharing what we learned, not as experts who have it all figured out, but as friends who found another way. Ev brings a background in psychology and years of walking alongside people through their hardest moments. Pat brings health coaching and a lifetime of writing to make sense of it all.
Together, we created The Written You because we believe your story deserves to be rewritten, by you, for you, one honest moment at a time.
So here we are. And here you are. Let's do this together. 💛
Who We Are
